Hi, I'm Sharn, a Mindset & Wellbeing Coach and founder of Breathe Again Coaching.
I coach ambitious, driven women who are ready to reconnect with their authentic selves. Women who are ready to step out of survival mode and create a life where they feel fulfilled and at peace.
I'm a certified Coach and NLP Master Practitioner. But my story didn't begin there.
It began years ago in the depths of trauma, complex PTSD, generalised anxiety disorder and a depression so deep, I wasn't sure I'd ever find my way through.
But I did.
It took decades of healing, learning and growth. I battled relentless anxiety, thought loops and deeply ingrained patterns that affected every area of my life.
No one should have to live that way.
That's why I created Breathe Again Coaching.
Today, I help women retrain their nervous systems, rebuild self-trust and step out of survival mode so they can finally feel safe within themselves. Because when you feel safe within, you can approach life with greater calm, confidence, clarity and a deep sense of peace.
I'm so glad you're here.
And if you're looking to build your inner safety, hold boundaries to protect your peace or step into your authentic self, please reach out to me.
You deserve to live and feel like your authentic self.
Sharn x
Nervous system regulation
Boundary setting and enforcement
Overthinking and rumination
People pleasing and conflict avoidance
Thought and behaviour change
Burnout in high functioning women
Recurring conflict and difficult conversations
Switching off and mental rest
Confidence in saying no
Emotional regulation under pressure
nervous system regulation, boundary setting, boundary coaching, emotional regulation, overthinking, people pleasing, stress and anxiety, thought patterns, behaviour change, women's coaching, high functioning women, inner child work, reaction patterns, confidence coaching, life coaching women UK
Articles
Anxiety Isn’t The Enemy, It’s Your Body Sending You A Signal
For most people, anxiety feels like something to be defeated, a malfunction in the brain, an inconvenience or a weakness to hide. However, ... [more]
How Burnout Sneaks Up on You And How to Reverse It
Burnout rarely arrives in one dramatic moment. It creeps in gradually, often so quietly that you don’t notice the decline until your ... [more]
The Hidden Cost Of People-Pleasing
People-pleasing often starts as survival. As children, we learn that keeping others happy keeps us safe, emotionally and/or physically. As ... [more]
Rebuilding Your Identity After Emotional Exhaustion
Emotional exhaustion doesn’t just drain your energy, it erodes your sense of self. When you’ve spent months or years surviving instead ... [more]
How To Break The Anxiety–Overthinking Loop
Anxiety and overthinking operate like a self-fuelling cycle. The amygdala detects a potential threat ? the mind creates scenarios ? the ... [more]
Creating A Life That Supports Your Nervous System
Your nervous system is constantly scanning for danger or safety, a process called neuroception. This means your daily habits, ... [more]
Anxiety Isn’t the Problem, It’s the Sign
Most people spend years battling their anxiety, trying to silence it, outrun it, outthink it or control it. When none of that works, they ... [more]
Why You Struggle to Set Boundaries And Why It’s Not Your Fault
People often assume that difficulty setting boundaries comes from being “too nice,” “too soft,” or “too sensitive.”
But ... [more]
Breaking Toxic Cycles Starts With Understanding the Need Beneath the Pattern
Most people try to break toxic cycles by changing their behaviour. They push themselves to stop people-pleasing, stop reacting, stop ... [more]
Burnout Isn’t About How Much You Do, It’s About How Much You Carry
Burnout is often described as a workload issue, working too hard, too fast, for too long.
But if that were true, everyone working a ... [more]
You’re Not “Too Much”, You’re Carrying Too Much
Many people have been told their whole lives that they are “too emotional,” “too sensitive,” “too intense,” or “too ... [more]
What Really Happens When You Heal the Inner Child
Inner child work is often misunderstood. Many people imagine it as revisiting childhood memories or engaging in abstract visualisations. In ... [more]
Why You Feel Stuck Even Though You Know What To Do
Many people come to coaching believing they lack discipline, motivation, or clarity.
In reality, most capable adults already know what ... [more]
Readiness Matters More Than Motivation
Motivation is unreliable. Readiness is what creates change.
Many people say they want change, but far fewer are actually ready to take ... [more]
Procrastination Is Not Laziness. It Is a Signal.
Procrastination is often misunderstood.
It is rarely about poor time management or lack of ambition. More often, it is an emotional and ... [more]
When Your Nervous System Is Not Safe, Change Will Always Feel Hard
Many people believe they struggle with consistency, confidence, or follow through because they lack discipline.
In reality, a nervous ... [more]
The Power of Saying No and Choosing Yourself.
You were not taught how to say no.
You were taught to be polite. To be helpful. To not upset anyone. To be agreeable. To put other ... [more]
The Words You Needed to Hear
As 2026 approaches, a natural moment to pause and reflect appears. A chance to meet yourself exactly where you are, with kindness and ... [more]
Do You Know What Coaching Is?
Do You Know What Coaching Is?
Are you considering coaching but not entirely sure what coaching actually is?
You are not alone. Many ... [more]
You Are Exactly Where You Are Meant to Be
Right now, in this moment, you are exactly where you are meant to be.
Not further ahead.
Not further behind.
That might be ... [more]
You Are Exactly Where You Are Meant to Be
Right now, in this moment, you are exactly where you are meant to be.
Not further ahead.
Not further behind.
That might be ... [more]
What changes when you stop freezing around your mother-in-law?
Picture the next family dinner. She makes the comment — the one about the potatoes, or how her son always loved her cooking. And for the ... [more]
The Glass Cage
If you have experienced race or gender based discrimination at work, you already know the calculation.
Do I speak up? And what will it ... [more]
Let’s retrain your nervous system to respond the way you want it to. Article 1/2
Have you had a tricky moment this weekend? A moment that made you feel anxious? A situation you walked into already feeling tense?
Most ... [more]
Let’s retrain your nervous system to respond the way you want it to. Article 2/2
In part 1 of this article, we learned to interrupt an unhelpful reaction from our nervous system or an intrusive thought. That should allow ... [more]
Do have arguments in your head about something that hasn't even happened yet?
You know that moment when you’re clearing up the kitchen after dinner, you’re sorting the dishes, loading the dishwasher, and wiping ... [more]
The Argument You're Having With Someone Who Isn't There
Have you ever caught yourself mid-conversation with someone who isn't in the room? Defending yourself against something they haven't even ... [more]
Why You Freeze And Then Replay It For A Week
You're in the moment. Someone says something. And instead of the sharp response you'd planned, nothing comes out. You go quiet, agree to ... [more]
You've Done The Work. So Why Are You Still Like This?
You've read the books. You've done years of therapy or coaching. You can explain exactly why you are the way you are. You could probably ... [more]
You don’t need another answer. You need relief.
I don’t think most people are looking for another answer.
I think they’re looking for relief.
Relief from overthinking every ... [more]
Why Walking Is One of the Most Powerful Things You Can Do for Your Nervous System
When we’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed or emotionally triggered, our instinct is often to find a complicated solution. We think we need ... [more]
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