You Are Exactly Where You Are Meant to Be

by Sharn Somasiri
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Right now, in this moment, you are exactly where you are meant to be.

Not further ahead.
Not further behind.

That might be uncomfortable to hear, especially if part of you feels stuck, frustrated, or impatient to move on. But growth does not always look like forward motion. Sometimes it looks like pause. Sometimes it looks like confusion. Sometimes it feels like being trapped in a place you would rather not be.

Yet there is always something here for you.

Every phase of life carries a lesson, even when you cannot name it yet. Sometimes the learning is obvious. Other times it only makes sense in hindsight. You are not required to understand it all right now. You are only required to stay present and willing.

This is where trust comes in.

Trust that whatever knowledge, insight, or strength you need in this season will come to you. Trust that you are not wasting time, even when it feels slow. Trust that you are not broken or failing because things have not shifted yet.

When it is time to move forward, you will know.

Clarity tends to arrive quietly. A decision feels lighter. Resistance eases. Something inside you clicks into place. You do not have to force the next step or chase it endlessly. Forward movement happens naturally when the learning of this phase is complete.

This is what it really means to go with the flow.

It is not passive. It is not giving up. It is an active choice to stop fighting where you are, to stop judging yourself for being here, and to allow the process to unfold in its own time.

You are not behind.
You are not lost.
You are becoming.

And that is more than enough for now.