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WHY A WOMAN PREFERS TO CHOOSE THE WRONG MAN.

Coach Marika Carrone by Marika Carrone
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Dirty John! I was watching this series these days on Netflix. Based on a real story. I found the documentary also interesting.
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The first thing we would do while watching this series it would be yelling and judging at the woman, John’s last wife in the series. When we stop judging, eventually we will end, we will start to understand more of her reaction. Moreover, we can understand why a clever and successful woman chooses the wrong man. John is an extreme case, but I was inspired by this story. It is not out of the world to meet the wrong person and go blind about that.
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So, why do we do that?
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1. We don’t accept reality. Why? We put high our expectations, and when the reality does not match the expectations, we don’t like to admit it. We choose to live in an unrealistic world, instead of facing reality and choosing the Truth.
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2. We think it might be a failure to admit we were “wrong” about that man. It is not about being right or wrong; it is about letting the time go. By the time, we do know someone better and better. Moreover, we can find out that we don’t like that person so much anymore. It is a natural process, and it is not a failure, it is accepting the change within reality. Take away the Proudness from yourself!
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3. We don’t give the right importance to details. Facts, information, behaviours, past, present. Does he involve you in his life? How much do you know about his family? Why is he interested in you? It might happen that a man will lie to us. What my life has taught me is that a small lie at the early stage of your relationship is not a coincidence; it is a habit. It will happen again.
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Feel your Gut!
Our instinct is there, and it does talk to us. If you feel that something is not clear, ask yourself if it does worth it to know a bit more. Talking to people who care about you (and make sure you choose the right ones to open up your thoughts and emotions), it might help. However, who is going to get clarity is you. Shape your own opinion and listen to yourself.
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Live, Laugh, Love ...???? and
GROW TOGETHER!
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With Love,
Marika


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